Friday, August 31, 2012

The Energetics of Conflict

Sometimes people will decide that we have done something very wrong, even if it is not true. And when this happens, they may project onto us, both with words and with energy, images that are a collation of all their past hurt.

When this happens we may own those projections and our self esteem may start to plummet. We will

be particularly prone to accept those projected images of ourselves as real, if we have within ourselves some of those same images, from our own past hurts. Like, if we were raised by a verbally abusive parent which told us we were bad, selfish, always wrong and as an adult someone calls us bad, selfish, wrong, there is a tendency to accept this reinforcement of the false self we already have within us. This is in part why the universe brings people with similar patterns together. The triggers set off blame and projection. And then we have an opportunity to choose if we want to own those projections/ accept those images or not.

The projector is not bad by the way. People with similar patterns often switch. One time one person projects. The next time its the other. The victim perpetrator thing is just a game with interchanging roles. The game only stops when we stop playing the game.

If we get stuck in anger/blame, we have to start owning what we are projecting. Realize how much of this energy has nothing to do with the other person, but more with our history of past disappointments and hurt. Then we can get busy healing those directly, instead of throwing them around onto whoever triggers us. We need to let go of all the molecules of hurt we still carry inside us, so we can come back to present time awareness, seeing the person in front of us for who they really are. Energetically, we can ask Source for a clearing of those energies, even as they emerge. It all helps.

If we are stuck in the role of receiving others images of who we are, we need to step back and reclaim our Soul. Stop accepting the projections. Simply state, this is not me. Visualize a energy barrier between you and the images that are not you. And reach for the parts of you that are eternal. Bring your highest self and Soul into your being. And be that. Allow the old images to dissolve. Not just the ones being projected onto you. But also those of your past. Let go of all shaming and diminishing images that were ever super-imposed onto your being. And reclaim yourself as free.

Sometimes it can be really challenging to come back to present time awareness. The triggers and the projections can get overwhelming. This is usually what happens in big arguments. We can build a head of steam that takes forever to dissipate. And we lose our objectivity. And most importantly, we loose our ability to see through the eyes of love. Only right or wrong will do. And the love is lost in the battle.

If this happens, it is wise to take time out of the picture. And to ask for source to a return to what is true. And for a clearing all of the negative energy and projections, floating around. Use your positive will to find a way back to love, knowing that you will always be supported in returning to center, if the intent is sincere. Nothing is more powerful than the intent to love. As Love is the true language of the universe. And the Universe always supports those who align with its song.

May we always find a way back to love and present time ...

Much love

Katie G. x

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