Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Assisting from a Soul perspective




As we awaken on the spiritual path and we begin to remember and integrate higher truths, as well as new abilities and skills, many of us are overjoyed with the experience of expansion this brings. Our lives suddenly feel more meaningful and we are exposed to experiences that often feel nothing less than extraordinary. May it be communications from beings of high light, awareness of realities beyond the veil or the awakening of powerful psychic and healing abilities, we suddenly feel much bigger and larger than the three-dimensional selves we formerly knew ourselves to be.

For many awakening spiritually also comes with a strong inner feeling of being part of a greater whole. Many experience a calling to something greater than themselves and a renewed sense of purpose, both of which can be exhilarating and rejuvenating to the Spirit. It is only natural and understandable therefore that many of us can’t wait to share our new perceptions, applying our new found knowledge of energy work, intuitive insight and multidimensional perspectives to the benefit of our friends, families and loved ones. And pretty much anybody else who may happen to cross our path. We enthusiastically want to spread the light to all corners of the world.

Our desire to spread our light is natural and in many ways quite wonderful. We feel that with our new found skills and knowledge, we can easily intervene and help others with their journey, providing them with the exact shift in perspective or with just the right tool and powerful healing technique that they need in order to improve their lives. With our valuable input, we reason, we obviously can support those around us to shift and improve their lot in powerful ways. With our help friends, family and loved one can easily begin to actualize their potential and create more positive experiences. So, armed with the best of intentions, we venture out to provide exactly that help, giving that advice, sharing that psychic insight, offering that healing technique and the help we perceive people need. However, even if at a first glance this would seem like a great way to contribute to others’ well-being, we must be aware of some of the spiritual laws that govern this plane. And we also need to understand the dynamics of personal growth from the perspective of Soul evolution.

Free Will and Soul Evolution

We live in a world where Free Will is the name of the game. Souls that incarnate in this plane choose to experience free will as a playground through which to evolve. Once incarnated here, free will is not an option or a choice; it is the foundational metaphysical framework within which this reality manifests. Souls choose to incarnate here so that they may learn to evolve in ways that empower them through the appropriate use of personal will, developing the ability to choose the higher path over the lower path when in incarnated form. These kinds of evolutionary choices create an opportunity for alignment between the personal will and the Will of the Soul and the Divine Will. It is the proactive act of choosing that which is higher that aligns the personality to the Higher Will. It is the proactive embracing of Soul aligned choices that furthers a person’s Soul growth.

The main lesson on this plane of reality is that of aligning the personality with the Soul, while shrouded in density and blinded by the veil. Using the correct alignment of the personal will towards Divine Will and progressively marrying a love based perspective, the personality gradually seeks further and further closeness to the Soul’s agenda. A being in incarnated form is always seeking this alignment and growth, often following mysterious Soul driven pathways of Earth plane experience which do not make a huge amount of sense when seen from an Earth perspective. A dysfunctional relationship may be exactly what a person needs to complete and re-balance a karmic cycle as an abuser in previous lifetimes. A seemingly unfulfilling job may be exactly what a person needs to develop skills needed to carry out a Soul purpose that will activate 10 years down the line. It is easy, without a true Soul perspective, to hinder rather than help when intervening to fix what seems wrong in other people’s lives.

Help as a high guide would

High guides are very careful with their interventions and guidance when dealing with incarnated beings. They seek to empower and to help, paying careful attention not to take people away from their Soul lessons, their Soul’s path and their opportunities for proper use of free will. They do not intervene uninvited: they respect the timing and free will of the personality. They know that only when the student is ready, a teacher can truly be effective. And they are also fully aware of how people’s experiences fit within their karmic growth cycles and they are aware of the karmic repercussions of unrequested interference and inappropriate assistance. So they deliver careful guidance, intervene only when asked and are precise with the quantity and quality of the help they offer. They know full well that they would be depriving the Soul of opportunities for evolution, if they were to operate outside of this careful framework. When thinking of assisting another, it is advisable that we follow in the same footsteps. In some ways, as incarnated beings, we need to abide to an even more stringent framework, exploring our motives for helping even more carefully than our guides do, as blinded by the veil and unaware on this plane of the full scope of the Soul’s plan, it can be even easier for us to intervene in misguided ways, even when armed with the best of intentions.

Be mindful of other peoples Soul’s journey and psychic boundaries

One of the very simple and foolproof ways to make sure we are respecting another Soul’s journey is to not offer unsolicited advice, help or guidance. It is almost always better to wait for another to ask for our help. For a start this is when they are going to be most receptive to hearing it. And it is respectful of the other person’s timetable for Soul growth. If we feel guided to offer help regardless, it is good to ask people if they want our feedback and support, before we deliver any insight, healing or psychic messages. This gives people the opportunity to assess whether they want you to access their field or deliver them psychic information. Any other approach, aside from potentially being unhelpful, constitutes a violation of psychic boundaries. This rule is also important to keep in mind between friends who are mutually psychic.

Just because friends are psychic, this does not mean that they are allowing permanent access to each other’s energy field. Remember to check with each other if feedback is wanted first. Make this a habit with all the people you know. And make sure that when you ask people permission to access them, to do so in a way in which they feel free and comfortable in declining your offer. Reassure them that you will not take offense. And if you find that you cannot have your help declined without feeling hurt, check your motives for offering help in the first place. You may have a hidden agenda, unconscious even to yourself.

Trust in people’s ability to follow their Soul’s path

In general, develop an attitude of trust. Trust that your loved ones have the ability to grow and to follow their own Soul’s guidance. Trust that Spirit is supporting them in growing as much as it is supporting you. Trust that each one of us is taken care of by God/Goddess/All That Is in wonderful if yet mysterious ways. Making sure that things work out is not all up to you. God/Goddess would never overwhelm you with that kind of burden. Your intervention may be necessary and welcome, but also consider it may be a way for you to reduce your own anxiety and fears that your loved ones are unable to change. Observe your energy of your offer of help. Recognize that when you offer healing or guidance to others based on a belief that they are unable to change on their own, that you are sending them an unconscious message that they do not have the strength, power or ability to take charge of their own lives, to listen to their Soul or to heal. This is a message based in fear and it is always dis-empowering to the person you are assisting. And it may even block them in their evolution.

You will have noticed that people often resist attempts for healing and intervention. It is not necessarily the healing attempt or the offer that they are resisting, but the negative unconscious message that they are receiving from us that state that they are not good enough or that they are not able to handle their own lives. Healing offered from this place is always met with some degree of resistance and rarely produces positive change. Notice when people resist your help and check if there are any negative messages you are sending out.

An offer of healing is not always an offer of love.

An offer of healing can sometimes be an attempt to manipulate, control, gain status or overpower. Make sure your offerings are coming from a high place, devoid of a lower-self agenda. Many of us slip into this one from time to time and some of us, still a little young on the path, do this on a regular basis. We offer healing that looks like support, but that is actually a way for us to get our foot in the door of our friend's of loved on's psyche, so we can manipulate or control outcomes. Or so that we may feel superior, in our position of know-it-all healer or psychic, which is just a misguided way to boost our own self-esteem.

This sounds really devious and you may be tempted to say “No, I do not do that”, but look again, as it can be subtle. Observe yourself. Do you make suggestions to others who have not requested them, either to feel better about yourself or from your lower selves’ perspective that you actually know what is good for the other person? The latter is especially tempting between family members or close friends. “If only so and so would wake up and see that he needs to do X. If he did X, like I believe he should, his life would shift. Let me subtly suggest to him that he do X. How can I get him to do X”. The truth is, who knows if X is what is best for this person. It may be, it may be not. It may be that going down this so called “wrong” road is the quickest path towards change for this person. The quickest path this Soul has chosen to hit bottom with his patterns, so that he may make an abrupt U-turn. It is wiser to not assume that we know what is good for another. We may think we do, but often we don’t.

Especially with our loved ones, we are often too close to see clearly. Hence it is best for our interventions to be pondered carefully, stripped of the lower self agenda and delivered tactfully and with precision. Where am I coming from in offering advice? Did my friend ask for this advice? Why do I feel I need to give it anyway? Is it to make myself feel better? Or so that I do not feel anxiety about their stuckness? Is it about trying to change this person’s behavior so as to eliminate the problems I perceive they are creating in my life? Is it so that I can get the person to change according to my agenda? Am I doing this for me or for them? Always tune in with yourself and your guidance before offering advice or healing. Examine your motives. Ask your guides for an effective and agenda free delivery. Ask if what you are doing is truly for the benefit of their Soul or if it is actually for your own benefit. About 90% of the time you will find yourself deciding that non-intervention is the highest path, as it may be the option that is most trusting and most honoring of the other and their chosen path.

Teach through example, rather than telling people what to do

The best way to advise and teach those close to us is almost always through example. Model the behavior you want the other to embrace. Follow your own path with integrity and soon others will do the same. Focus on filling yourself with light and love and joy and forgiveness and see how quickly people will gravitate towards you and ask you for your support directly. Embody the vibration of love within your own life and quickly others will follow suit. Set the energy, lift the vibration and other soon will raise to match your consciousness stream, coming into resonance with your positivity, passion and joy. Release your loved ones from your expectations and from the judgments of what they are doing wrong. Love them unconditionally for who they are. You will notice that this alone, this unconditional acceptance, will often give them the freedom they need to transform. They may choose a different way from the one you would have chosen for them. And they may transform away from you. Let this be ok with you. Allow your loved ones to change in the way most harmonious for their Soul’s growth and ask Spirit to support you if any separations occur. Know that there will always be an abundance of love for you and many friends and loved ones for you to play with, even if the names of the people around you may happen to change, as is often the case with people traveling on pathways of accelerated evolution. Allow for transformation to happen around you in the most natural and unhindered ways, trusting that all is well.

Support people’s change energetically

Offer support to others by holding high and positive images of them. If people close to you are behaving in ways that you feel challenging, hold evolved images of them in your mind and treat them as if they were already evolved. When we hold evolved images of our loved ones, every time they think of us they tap into their highest essence. Every time they interact with us, they rise to their highest expression. Our judgments and our making them wrong, ironically trap them into lower behaviors, as they respond to our lower broadcast about who they are in kind. Keep your images high, even the images you have of yourself. Hold images of yourself as loving, patient, allowing and positively supportive. Empower the people around you with a steady broadcast of love. Bless your loved ones and friends with an energetic transmission of trust and faith in their potential and of their ability to grow as their Soul desires. Become a transmission station broadcasting love and trust and visions of fulfilled potential to all the people in your life. And watch the miracles unfold. And see the Earth plane powerfully evolving through your offer of positive images and high vibrating energy streams. Know that you are setting the energy templates for others to follow, creating powerful collective change one person at a time. Thank you for your powerful contribution to an evolved humanity. May you be blessed as you walk the path of your Soul.

©2008-2011 Katie Gallanti. All rights reserved. First published on Paradigm Shift, UK. Katie Gallanti is a metaphysical counselor, intuitive, teacher and writer. 

Thursday, December 15, 2011

Evolve the Warrior Within



These are very volatile times. Lots of tension, big issues going on in the world, etc. And some of which we discuss on here and on my FB profile. However a word of caution. Our job as workers of the light and truth warriors is to shine light, yes, expose, yes, take action, yes, but we need to stay out of two toxic extremes. Toxic extreme number 1- All is good light and fluffy and lets not talk about the bad guys, dark side (very common to many lightworkers). Toxic extreme 2- Lets hang the bad guys by the balls, throw epithets at them and go into hate "us versus them" thinking (very common amongst the light warriors).

I have spoken at length about toxic extreme number 1 in various articles. You can find them here my blog under the planetary healing and collective shift labels. The second extreme I am addressing now.

Remember you are not here to hate, be revengeful, seek and destroy. Hate, seek and destroy is the lower incarnation of the warrior, vibrating in 4D. If as a light warrior, info warrior, you go down this route regularly, you just become the other side of the polarity. Nothing changes, just a different version of the polarity game. We all go there occasionally and that is ok, but make sure this is not your ongoing M.O., as its not all that helpful in the long run. Also remember that there is nothing empowered about hate, in fact the entities love to chomp on that stuff. They don't care who you are angry at as long as they have some lower chakra juice to feast on. So...don't feed the dark astrals ;-) lol ... they are fat enough already.

The goal we are aiming for here, I feel, is balance. Looking at what is, dark side included, stepping out of delusion and breaking the programming, but then we need to stay centered and focused and firm. Be solid and adult in your energy. Keep your inner adolescent in check. Rebellion for rebellion's sake does not help forge new paths. In fact in most cases it just attracts a reaction, which slaps you back down. You are still playing the game.

Go into your higher self. Look at unresolved anger and unfinished business with authority figures, present life and past. Ask spirit to clear them. And then from a higher vantage point, you may see things differently, without the drama.

As human beings we have addiction to drama. It makes us feel we are making a difference, but that's not always the case. We move energy that way for sure, but sometimes its just a chaotic vortex, swirls of energy which ultimately stay put. Firm steady directed energy and the setting of clear intent and boundaries goes further than screaming at so called enemies. It cuts through the energy with empowerment and creates a way through.

Remember that there is a vantage point, a higher self birds eye view, from which the dark is serving an awakener purpose, as things can only go so far as we allow them. The dark tests our boundaries and self worth and self love as individuals and as humanity. It also tests the quality of our light: do we keep our love and integrity in the face of adversity or do we descend into conflict and rage? While a little conflict and rage is understandable at times, especially while we are releasing old stuff, when all is said and done, aim to be the noblest incarnation of humanity you can be.

When in doubt ask: what would the noble self do? What would true courage and integrity say or do? There is a way to hold strength and love at the same time. For us now an opportunity to discover what that way may be and the true essence of being the best of being human. We have not even scratched the surface of our potential.

Ask for the next level of the human blueprint to be downloaded into your being now, as you step into the next level and hold the templates for the next stage of our awakening. Embody the sward of light, but hold it in your heart, so you may be a holder of strength and balance.

Evolve your warrior self into the archetype of the noble king and queen which holds ground.

Command the new world into being with divine authority and watch the inner and outer follow suit.

Much love to you all :-)

Katie plus Councils.


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