Sometimes we can get into a communication jam with people. Especially with loved ones, this can be very painful. We want to talk but somehow they are not hearings us. Or we are so filled with e
motion that we don't manage to
communicate clearly. Or we have come to a place where we are now so
triggered, that both parties have stopped listening and a fight just
escalates.
Step one is to take a time out. Step away from the situation and clear your mind and energy, may this be an hour or a couple of days.
Step two is to ask for the patterns that have been triggered to be cleared. For both parties. If the argument is a long standing one there may be both childhood patterns and/or karmic patterns that need shifting before a new kind of communication can be initiated. You can borrow my healing councils and ask them to do this energy clearing for you.
Step there is to take some silent time and ask for the loved ones spirit/soul to come into your psychic space. If you can visualize this, it helps with the process. If you are claireaudient, this may help even more. Get into a place of love and vulnerability and communicate with sincerity the issue to them on the inner planes. Send them love as you do so. When people come to us on the inner planes, they often appear in their authentic state, beyond the need for masks and protections. If you can see them or hear them, this in itself may help you understand and love them through this, as you will see the truth of the situation, which during guarded times, people sometimes hide.
Remind them of how much you love them, despite the disagreements and miscommunications. You will often find that the person's being will talk back to you on the inner planes and explain their own true position on things and the reasons for their behavior, beyond what they would tell you at the personality level. A dialogue may ensue. If you reach resolution at this level, you will often find that resolution will follow on the physical plane also. The person will call. Or the argument will be resolved. Or you will understand why one had to walk away.
If the situation is particularly heavy, ask for both souls to find a solution that works for both as you sleep. Ask also for assistance from Source, in working with the energies and people involved, so as to bring back harmony and love and dissolve all that is illusion and separation.
Trust in the ability of love to create miracles, even in the most dire of situations. And be willing to shift and change your default positions. Stay open, be willing, move forward, forgive, as much as is appropriate. Without compromising your soul's non negotiables, be willing to compromise as much as is healthy.
Wishing all great healing communications and resolutions, during the last moments of this mercury retrograde time and the days that follow ahead
Much love and blessings
Katie
Copyrigth 2012. Katie Gallanti. http://cosmicperspectives.blogspot.com/ http://www.reclaimignthelight.com/
Step one is to take a time out. Step away from the situation and clear your mind and energy, may this be an hour or a couple of days.
Step two is to ask for the patterns that have been triggered to be cleared. For both parties. If the argument is a long standing one there may be both childhood patterns and/or karmic patterns that need shifting before a new kind of communication can be initiated. You can borrow my healing councils and ask them to do this energy clearing for you.
Step there is to take some silent time and ask for the loved ones spirit/soul to come into your psychic space. If you can visualize this, it helps with the process. If you are claireaudient, this may help even more. Get into a place of love and vulnerability and communicate with sincerity the issue to them on the inner planes. Send them love as you do so. When people come to us on the inner planes, they often appear in their authentic state, beyond the need for masks and protections. If you can see them or hear them, this in itself may help you understand and love them through this, as you will see the truth of the situation, which during guarded times, people sometimes hide.
Remind them of how much you love them, despite the disagreements and miscommunications. You will often find that the person's being will talk back to you on the inner planes and explain their own true position on things and the reasons for their behavior, beyond what they would tell you at the personality level. A dialogue may ensue. If you reach resolution at this level, you will often find that resolution will follow on the physical plane also. The person will call. Or the argument will be resolved. Or you will understand why one had to walk away.
If the situation is particularly heavy, ask for both souls to find a solution that works for both as you sleep. Ask also for assistance from Source, in working with the energies and people involved, so as to bring back harmony and love and dissolve all that is illusion and separation.
Trust in the ability of love to create miracles, even in the most dire of situations. And be willing to shift and change your default positions. Stay open, be willing, move forward, forgive, as much as is appropriate. Without compromising your soul's non negotiables, be willing to compromise as much as is healthy.
Wishing all great healing communications and resolutions, during the last moments of this mercury retrograde time and the days that follow ahead
Much love and blessings
Katie
Copyrigth 2012. Katie Gallanti. http://cosmicperspectives.blogspot.com/ http://www.reclaimignthelight.com/
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